I'm in a lucky spot right now: I'm on a roll. My job is great, my clients are amazing, and things in my social/dating life are going well. I feel like I'm putting good vibes out there and the universe is responding with gusto by introducing me to interesting people and giving me good learning experiences. It's pretty awesome.
This morning, though, I talked to a friend who is in the opposite spot. She's in a funk. (And it may just be a bad enough funk to be a phunk. Or, perhaps the ever-dreaded pfunk.) She's worried about where her life is going and how she's going to get there. She's gone down a rabbit hole of doubt and fear, and is worried that not only will the pfunk remain, but maybe the judging voices in her head are right.
From the outside, I can see absolutely nothing wrong with my friend's life right now -- she's just facing some professional challenges and feeling some fear. But it got me thinking: what's the difference between where she is (pfunk) and where I am (roll)? I think it's all about perspective. I think my life is going well and it feels like the universe is rewarding me with this roll. She thinks her life isn't going well, and the universe feels like it's rewarding her with a pfunk.
I'm not trying to say that we create our own realities (though I may be kindasortakinda implying that), but on the extreme edges (funks/rolls) I've personally experienced a strong mind-reality connection. When I want to see crap, I can always find it. And when all I'm seeing is good, life is sweet.
The challenge for me (and for many people, I think) is that it's hard to flip the switch from funk to roll. It's kind of a chicken and egg scenario -- at this point, the outside world has to give me some indication that I'm doing well before I can feel like I'm on a roll. What I'm hoping I might be able to get to is the opposite -- that by thinking I'm on a roll I can start to get out of a funk.
It's a matter of faith in myself and my abilities despite what I'm seeing in the outside world. And at the moment, that feels like a big stretch. But I'm willing to take my roll and see just how long I can get it to last. And maybe that's the first step.