“You need to spend more time up a tree, with your shoes off, eating jellybeans and watching the clouds go by.”
"But, but, but..." I stammered. I'd never get ANYWHERE if I did THAT. And there are things that I want. I, I, I... I don't know what to DO.
"Do nothing." he said.
After brunch, it started to hit me. I've gotten much more gentle with my expectations in the past five years but I still drive myself, and hard. I rarely screw up, but when I do, the gloves come off. I hold my tongue when others don’t do what I have asked them to do THREE TIMES, but if I spend a weekend without checking off everything on my to do list, it was a “waste” of a weekend.
Especially because, upon reflection, I have evidence that my weekend wasn't a waste. I mopped the floor, baked a cake, took my friend out for birthday brunch, downloaded Office 2010 onto my computer, and watched several hours of Planet Earth, the nutritional supplement of television. I didn't do nothing!
What I'm getting at is that it's time for me, once again, to question what it is that drives me. Where did I learn my standards for what is and isn't ok, and am I willing to revise them? Are they serving me? Or are they holding me back?
What good is going for perfection if it only makes me feel broken along the way?
Thanks, Jimmy. Happy birthday!
* I may have made up the part about eating jellybeans, but it really should be in there, so I’m pretending it was.
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